Happy Sunday to you, fair Reader!
There comes a moment in every witch’s life when she stands before the mirror: her fingers are wrapped around the length of her hair and she wonders whether she is holding onto beauty… or history.
For many of us, our hair becomes a timeline.
Every inch remembers something.
It remembers the tears we cried in silence, the laughter shared beneath autumn moons, the people who stayed, the people who left, and every version of ourselves that somehow carried us to this very moment.
Long hair has always held a certain enchantment across countless traditions. It has been seen as a vessel of intuition, power, identity, and spirit. Whether truth, folklore or somewhere beautifully in between, I have always felt that our hair carries stories.
Perhaps that is why cutting it can feel so frightening.
It isn’t merely hair falling to the floor.
It is grief.
It is growth.
It is trauma.
It is permission.
There have been seasons where I refused to cut mine, convincing myself that I would somehow lose a part of who I was… stuggling with losing my identity as ‘the witch with the long red hair from Salem’. But lately, I have found myself wondering something entirely different…
What if I am not losing anything at all?
What if I am simply making room and space for more magick to grow?
As witches, we speak often of releasing what no longer serves us. We cleanse our homes with smoke, bury old intentions beneath the earth, burn petitions beneath the Full Moon, and sweep stagnant energy from our doorways.
Yet somehow, we forget that we, too, deserve to be part of those rituals.
Sometimes the ritual is far simpler than casting a circle. It begins with the quiet snip of a single lock of hair. A shedding… a grand release!
A promise whispered to the woman waiting patiently beneath everything you’ve outgrown.
Perhaps this haircut isn’t about changing how I look. It is about honoring who I have become.
The woman who survived.
The woman who learned.
The woman who finally understands that transformation rarely asks for permission—it simply arrives.
The old witches often understood that power wasn’t found in clinging to what once was. It was found in knowing when to let the old skin, the old stories, and sometimes even the old braid fall away.
So if you find yourself standing before the mirror, scissors in hand, wondering whether you’re making a mistake…
Perhaps ask yourself a different question.
What version of me is waiting on the other side of this cut?
May whatever you choose to release do so with grace.
May what grows in its place be healthier, lighter and more authentically your own.
Until next time, dear Reader…
May your hearth stay warm, your coffee never grow cold and your spirit always have the courage to become someone new.
FB.